Actually, let's start over....
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- aaronatstate
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Re: Super close to finishing this ridiculousness
Can we change the thread title to "We were super close, but now far again to finishing..."

Chr15t0ph3r85: YES
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Re: Super close to finishing this ridiculousness
[quote=""alienviking""]But will it come with a happy ending?[/quote]
[quote=""aaronatstate""]Can we change the thread title to "We were super close, but now far again to finishing..."[/quote]

[quote=""aaronatstate""]Can we change the thread title to "We were super close, but now far again to finishing..."[/quote]

- Duck Vader
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Re: Super close to finishing this ridiculousness
[quote=""ChargerX3""]Someone needs a Scooby then.
https://reno.craigslist.org/cto/d/reno- ... 45012.html[/quote]
Need to be able to fit in.
If I am going to be spending the money and getting something else it is going to be useful. A subaru is not useful for me.
https://reno.craigslist.org/cto/d/reno- ... 45012.html[/quote]
Need to be able to fit in.
If I am going to be spending the money and getting something else it is going to be useful. A subaru is not useful for me.
Re: Super close to finishing this ridiculousness
[quote=""Duck Vader""]And usefulness as well. Tired of renting shit all the time.
I also routinely now hurt myself getting in/out of the Volt.
Other option I have is to sell the Volt and daily the XJ. Which would be the cheapest option since no payments and the XJ is paid off. But reliability comes into play.
EDIT:
Also we will need a reliable 4WD vehicle come the internship. Will have to head into mountains during winter months.[/quote]


I also routinely now hurt myself getting in/out of the Volt.
Other option I have is to sell the Volt and daily the XJ. Which would be the cheapest option since no payments and the XJ is paid off. But reliability comes into play.
EDIT:
Also we will need a reliable 4WD vehicle come the internship. Will have to head into mountains during winter months.[/quote]



Whenever you use forceful and overt verbal persuasion to try to convince others to see things your way, they're probably not listening to what you say, Instead they're looking for every error in you your logic and mistakes in your facts, all the while constructing counterarguments. Worse still, they don't merely believe you're wrong; they need you to be wrong in order to protect the status quo. And since the final judge exists in their own head, you lose every time. - The Influencer
Is the level of bullshit you have to go through to change things in a direction you want, less than than or equal than the level of current bullshit?
Re: Super close to finishing this ridiculousness
[quote=""Duck Vader""]And usefulness as well. Tired of renting shit all the time.
I also routinely now hurt myself getting in/out of the Volt.
Other option I have is to sell the Volt and daily the XJ. Which would be the cheapest option since no payments and the XJ is paid off. But reliability comes into play.
EDIT:
Also we will need a reliable 4WD vehicle come the internship. Will have to head into mountains during winter months.[/quote]
How unreliable is the XJ? Breaking down weekly? Or could potentially? Major breakdowns (engine/trans) or relatively minor stuff?
Will a AAA tow package and your repair bills be less than a new car?
Yes? XJ
No? Newer car
I also routinely now hurt myself getting in/out of the Volt.
Other option I have is to sell the Volt and daily the XJ. Which would be the cheapest option since no payments and the XJ is paid off. But reliability comes into play.
EDIT:
Also we will need a reliable 4WD vehicle come the internship. Will have to head into mountains during winter months.[/quote]
How unreliable is the XJ? Breaking down weekly? Or could potentially? Major breakdowns (engine/trans) or relatively minor stuff?
Will a AAA tow package and your repair bills be less than a new car?
Yes? XJ
No? Newer car

Whenever you use forceful and overt verbal persuasion to try to convince others to see things your way, they're probably not listening to what you say, Instead they're looking for every error in you your logic and mistakes in your facts, all the while constructing counterarguments. Worse still, they don't merely believe you're wrong; they need you to be wrong in order to protect the status quo. And since the final judge exists in their own head, you lose every time. - The Influencer
Is the level of bullshit you have to go through to change things in a direction you want, less than than or equal than the level of current bullshit?
- Duck Vader
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Re: Super close to finishing this ridiculousness
[quote=""vegasidol""]How unreliable is the XJ? Breaking down weekly? Or could potentially? Major breakdowns (engine/trans) or relatively minor stuff?
Will a AAA tow package and your repair bills be less than a new car?
Yes? XJ
No? Newer car[/quote]
Pretty much every time I have driven the Jeep for more than just a few miles something has gone wrong. Minor stuff, but enough that it stops it from being able to be driven. Still need to make sure it is holding oil pressure.
At this point I am not sure of anything else that could go wrong. It has new headers, plugs, oil pressure sending unit, radiator, gaskets, timing chain, shocks, tires, radio, cluster, springs, leaf springs, etc. My biggest concern now is driveline issues. Vibrates/shakes like crazy about 50 mph. Assuming with a hack n tap or SYE would fix that. I hope. Also smells crazy hot and like it might have an exhaust leak somewhere. But gauges don't show overheating and coolant levels look good.
Also last time I drove it oil pressure went away. Hooked up a mechanical gauge for over an hour in the garage and pressure never dropped to a dangerous level so swapped in a new sending unit. Haven't driven it since then.
Will a AAA tow package and your repair bills be less than a new car?
Yes? XJ
No? Newer car[/quote]
Pretty much every time I have driven the Jeep for more than just a few miles something has gone wrong. Minor stuff, but enough that it stops it from being able to be driven. Still need to make sure it is holding oil pressure.
At this point I am not sure of anything else that could go wrong. It has new headers, plugs, oil pressure sending unit, radiator, gaskets, timing chain, shocks, tires, radio, cluster, springs, leaf springs, etc. My biggest concern now is driveline issues. Vibrates/shakes like crazy about 50 mph. Assuming with a hack n tap or SYE would fix that. I hope. Also smells crazy hot and like it might have an exhaust leak somewhere. But gauges don't show overheating and coolant levels look good.
Also last time I drove it oil pressure went away. Hooked up a mechanical gauge for over an hour in the garage and pressure never dropped to a dangerous level so swapped in a new sending unit. Haven't driven it since then.
Re: We were super close, but are once again far from finishing this ridiculousness
Get rid of the Jeep. It's not doing you any favors sitting there.
Pick up an older truck. Keep and daily volt.
This way at least the truck sitting there doing nothing is actually useful when needed
Pick up an older truck. Keep and daily volt.
This way at least the truck sitting there doing nothing is actually useful when needed
DOGE
Re: We were super close, but are once again far from finishing this ridiculousness
Thread title is better but still needs improvement.

Re: We were super close, but are once again far from finishing this ridiculousness
[quote=""vr4""]Get rid of the Jeep. It's not doing you any favors sitting there.
Pick up an older truck. Keep and daily volt.
This way at least the truck sitting there doing nothing is actually useful when needed[/quote]
This is what I suggested a long time ago. This is what I do. Daily the escape and take the avalanche to the fire hall and when needed.
Drive the truck some and the you will feel better for when you have to drive the volt. You are not gonna find the perfect vehicle for the price you want. You want something thats perfect, might as well buy new.
Coop
Pick up an older truck. Keep and daily volt.
This way at least the truck sitting there doing nothing is actually useful when needed[/quote]
This is what I suggested a long time ago. This is what I do. Daily the escape and take the avalanche to the fire hall and when needed.
Drive the truck some and the you will feel better for when you have to drive the volt. You are not gonna find the perfect vehicle for the price you want. You want something thats perfect, might as well buy new.
Coop
[quote=""Melis""]The cop asked Coop "Are you really a firefighter?" Coop was like "yeah" then the cop said "ok your in charge" then the cop left
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- Duck Vader
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Re: We were super close, but are once again far from finishing this ridiculousness
[quote=""vr4""]Get rid of the Jeep. It's not doing you any favors sitting there.
Pick up an older truck. Keep and daily volt.
This way at least the truck sitting there doing nothing is actually useful when needed[/quote]
Not an option.
That would be the most expensive route and give me 3 car payments. Not something I'm comfortable with since I'll be losing income.
I could buy a truck outright but I'm not touching savings for it. Need to build up savings, not deplete it.
Also if we sell the jeep I don't see any money from it. Her jeep. Her money. We agreed to that a long time ago and every time we discuss selling it she always reminds me that I don't get to see the money.
Pick up an older truck. Keep and daily volt.
This way at least the truck sitting there doing nothing is actually useful when needed[/quote]
Not an option.
That would be the most expensive route and give me 3 car payments. Not something I'm comfortable with since I'll be losing income.
I could buy a truck outright but I'm not touching savings for it. Need to build up savings, not deplete it.
Also if we sell the jeep I don't see any money from it. Her jeep. Her money. We agreed to that a long time ago and every time we discuss selling it she always reminds me that I don't get to see the money.
Re: We were super close, but are once again far from finishing this ridiculousness
What would she want to do with it? The wife and I combine our money. Its not always fun but at the same time we are suppose to be in this together and together money lets us do stuff neither could without the other. Its only an issue when there isnt any money and then the blame game starts. So I try to keep what I know she will feel okay with in the bank.
Coop
Coop
[quote=""Melis""]The cop asked Coop "Are you really a firefighter?" Coop was like "yeah" then the cop said "ok your in charge" then the cop left
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- Duck Vader
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Re: We were super close, but are once again far from finishing this ridiculousness
We keep certain things separate. Income is combined but stuff we sell that is ours we decide what to do with the money individually. Helps control her. She has a bad spending habit but as long as she only spends money from stuff of hers she sells then we are ok.
Re: We were super close, but are once again far from finishing this ridiculousness
She has the bad spending habit?

Re: We were super close, but are once again far from finishing this ridiculousness
[quote=""ChargerX3""]She has the bad spending habit?[/quote]
Well he hasnt bought anything....yet.
Coop
Well he hasnt bought anything....yet.
Coop
[quote=""Melis""]The cop asked Coop "Are you really a firefighter?" Coop was like "yeah" then the cop said "ok your in charge" then the cop left
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- Duck Vader
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Re: We were super close, but are once again far from finishing this ridiculousness
[quote=""ChargerX3""]She has the bad spending habit?[/quote]
I know you are joking, but in reality I am relatively stupid tight with money compared to her. I tend to spend a lot of vehicles, that is my only big vice. It is why I haven't already made a purchase. Trying to be better about it.
She on the other hand has some issues that leads to major spending followed by major regret followed by more spending. She will get in this mood and want to go spend hundreds of dollars on stuff she doesn't need. Then a week later realize what she did and be upset. Then gives everything to goodwill or sells it. Then a few months later the same thing. She got on this bracelet kick a bit ago and spent like $600 on them. Now she is selling them all. It is annoying, but it is her money.
So to help with this spending/selling stuff we set up a paypal account for her and separate checking account that none of our income goes into. It is hers to do whatever she wants with. Other than that I have complete control over finances and she has to OK any purchase she makes with me beforehand if it will come out of our checking.
It is a symptom of some of her mental issues she battles with.
I know you are joking, but in reality I am relatively stupid tight with money compared to her. I tend to spend a lot of vehicles, that is my only big vice. It is why I haven't already made a purchase. Trying to be better about it.
She on the other hand has some issues that leads to major spending followed by major regret followed by more spending. She will get in this mood and want to go spend hundreds of dollars on stuff she doesn't need. Then a week later realize what she did and be upset. Then gives everything to goodwill or sells it. Then a few months later the same thing. She got on this bracelet kick a bit ago and spent like $600 on them. Now she is selling them all. It is annoying, but it is her money.
So to help with this spending/selling stuff we set up a paypal account for her and separate checking account that none of our income goes into. It is hers to do whatever she wants with. Other than that I have complete control over finances and she has to OK any purchase she makes with me beforehand if it will come out of our checking.
It is a symptom of some of her mental issues she battles with.
Re: We were super close, but are once again far from finishing this ridiculousness
[quote=""Duck Vader""]It is a symptom of some of her mental issues she battles with.[/quote]
A symptom of being a woman?
A symptom of being a woman?

- Duck Vader
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Re: We were super close, but are once again far from finishing this ridiculousness
Lol. I wish. It would cut back on medical expenses. Lots of psych appointments, meds, etc. Adds up. Luckily her work now covers psych appointments completely.
- alienviking
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Re: We were super close, but are once again far from finishing this ridiculousness
[quote=""stealthee""]A symptom of being a woman?
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Hah Beth doesn't spend money on anything and she makes waaaaaaaaay more than I do.
Hah Beth doesn't spend money on anything and she makes waaaaaaaaay more than I do.
Re: We were super close, but are once again far from finishing this ridiculousness
Yea, my wife is as frugal as they come. I thought I was bad...no way. She still lives like shes in college only buying what she needs when needed. Me getting us a Costco membership was like watching a seal melt in the sun. Lol!

